I am a proponent of goal setting but I recognize that a lot of people, including myself at times, struggle with setting goals because it can sometimes not be easy to deal with personal and important items. There are numerous books all about how to deal with internal struggles which Seth Godin calls confronting the lizard brain. A few excellent examples are Seth Godin’s Linchpin, Rick Carson’s Taming Your Gremlin, and Steven Pressfield’s The War of Art.
Scott Scheper has written an ebook, How to Get Focused, which is about dealing with distraction in our digital fast paced world so you can achieve stuff that makes a difference in your life and the lives of others.
His chapter on Focused Goals that is posted on his How to Get Focused blog takes a simpler approach to goal setting than the normally advocated SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Timely) goals.
His approach to focused goals has what I call 3X3 elements:
- Emphasis on developing the proper motivated state of mind specific to the goal by combining 3 items (humility, meaning and passion).
- 3 word mantra for each goal to identify, repeat, and recall the goal
- Stick with the goal as a priority for at least 3 monthes (this applies to big goals).
I see this as an enhanced front end to my modified 8 step Zig Ziglar goal completion process where once you have firmly established the goal in steps 1 and 2, you use project management techniques to help yourself follow through – hopefully by involving others.
In his book and blog post Scott includes inspiration videos like the one about Nick Vujicic who was born without arms or legs but has an incredible attitude. Be sure to scroll down in the Focused Goals blog post to watch the 4 minute video. Nick is a professional speaker and he sells DVDs on his web site Attitude is Altitude.
There is always more to learn about setting and achieving goals and what could be more important than that. Just do it.
In addition to a funny cartoon on the cubicle life Scott Adams is also quite insightful on his blog.
I like articles that re-examine everyday life and provide a perspective for improvement.
Scott Adams recommends the Dale Carnegie course.
The Art of Conversation
Active Listening
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With all the negative news and the common tendency to turn activities into drudgery of shoulds instead of thinking of them opportunities to work (play?) at making a difference, Learned Optimism by Martin Seligman is a book that more people should know about and read.
If you can allocate the time you should really read ...
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Don't give up on your dreams, or your dreams will give up on you.
- John Wooden 1910-2010 Legendary basketball (10 NCAA championships in 12 years) and life coach
Larger version of the Wooden Pyramid of Success
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"Some people say they haven't yet found themselves. But the self is not something one finds; it is something one creates."
- Thomas Szasz 1920- Psychiatrist, academic, social critic, author
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All human actions have one or more of these seven causes: chance, nature, compulsions, habit, reason, passion and desire.Excellence is not a singular act, but a habit. You are what you repeatedly do.
Aristotle - Greek philosopher 384-322 BC
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Quote from a Scott Belsky interview in the Happiness Project blog.
1. People who change the world are people who master what they love.
2. Don't be ambitious to be successful, be ambitious to be happy.
3. The point of life is to have fun and deserve it.
Scott Belsky ...
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"My experience is what I agree to attend to."
- William James 1842-1910 noted Psychologist, author, Philosopher
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I learned from Steve Jobs that people can change the world. Maybe we didn't get 95 percent market share, but we did make the world a better place. I learned from Steve that some things need to be believed to be seen. These are powerful lessons.
- Guy Kawasaki former ...
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Zig Ziglar is famous as an author (he has written 119 books) and inspirational speaker. I have a few of his books including Success for Dummies (hate the title but a very good book nonetheless).
He is most well known for his sales training seminars but before you ...
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